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The two most important questions we
can ask are: Who am I? and How shall I live? These
questions awaken us to deeper levels of knowing, feeling, and acting.
These questions lead us in the direction of the highest expression
of our common humanity.
By examining our intentions, motivations, and behaviors through
inquiry and deep listening, we can neutralize habitual, conditioned
patterns of knowledge and perception and begin to make conscious
choices from an inner place of creativity, intuition, and freedom.
Robert’s unique style of group facilitation and teaching is a
spontaneous weaving of lecture, dialogue, participant sharing,
and silence which results in a deeply enlightening experience.
truthTalk themes are as varied as the interests of people.
Below is a list of popular topics.
> Natural Meditation
In its truest sense, meditation is not a practice but a way of
being. In order to know meditation — not as a practice but as
a way of being and of living — we have to investigate the nature
of our own mind, and we have to experience the Silence beyond
the mind. From this place of authentic being, we are able to think,
speak, and act from an awareness which includes our thoughts and
emotions, but is not defined by them. This truthTalk
will focus on how to experience natural meditation in life and
at work.
> Igniting the Soul at Work
We all want to enhance our experience of work and enrich our work
environments with greater meaning, purpose, joy, and deep human
connection. We want our work to be a place of inspiration, where
we can find full creative outlet for our deepest values and highest
vision. How do we bring our full spirit to work, and how do we
manage challenges and stresses from time management to dictatorial
managers? This truthTalk will focus on issues faced by
all people in the workplace — whether as a sole provider or working
within a small business or large corporation.
> Emotional Expertise
The essence of a spiritual life is intimacy: with self, others,
Earth. In order to express intimacy, to give and receive love
and caring, to truly experience our connection with all of Life,
we need to cultivate emotional expertise. Without an ability to
express our emotions with skill, we cannot effectively bring forth
our spiritual light into the world. This truthTalk will
focus on experiencing and expressing our emotions as a component
of spiritual living.
> Communicating in Intimate Relationships
We all want intimacy, because intimacy reflects our capacity to
give and receive love, to experience the beauty, magic, and wonderment
of life, of being alive, of sharing our lives with another. However,
with intimacy often comes fear, because the more vulnerable we
are, the more afraid we may become — of judgment, rejection, inadequacy,
betrayal, and loss. This truthTalk will illuminate positive
principles and effective behaviors as we explore and resolve our
persistent communication issues in intimate relationships. The
themes include: breaking negative patterns; dissolving fear and
preserving love; building — not destroying — trust, connection,
understanding, and joy; showing our respect and appreciation;
converting irritations and frustrations to requests; asking for
what you want; and listening to understand.
> Magical Living
Our living often swings between two seemingly opposite poles of
experience: on the one side is an experience of isolation, anxiety,
confusion, fear; and on the other side is the experience of unity,
clarity, joy, enthusiasm, and energy. Beyond both is magical living,
pointed to by such signs as serendipity, synchronicity, transcendence,
grace, intuition. In all these cases, the words betray something
bigger than our rational minds can comprehend. Don’t reach
to get, open to receive. What does this mean? This is the
focus of the Magical Living truthTalk.
> The Examined Life
From time to time an inner experience or outer event prompts us
to examine our life, to question who we are, what we are doing,
and how we are doing it. We are called to a deeper understanding
of our identity and purpose, of our true calling or path. We begin
to question everything and become open to new realities, new possibilities.
In these moments of truth, we may think we've been but sleepwalking
through our days, living at the effect of others, of someone else's
beliefs and dreams. Where is our authentic self and life? What
is it? How do we become fully awake and alive in our own life,
feeling the passion, pull, and power of our own extraordinary
existence?
> Managing Attention, Not Time
It seems as if no one has enough time to do everything they want
to do, even — and especially — the really important things that
connect them to loved ones, their purpose and passions, and their
spiritual and artistic pursuits. It seems we are always one step
behind the life we truly want to live. Is “finding more time”
the best strategy to accomplish our well-intentioned to do lists,
or are we looking at our lives in the wrong way to begin with?
How do we make Time our servant instead of our master? This truthTalk
will focus on how to make peace with Time so we can life a fulfilling
and creative life.
> Welcome to the Fun House
Our mind can be our friend or enemy; our heaven or our living
hell. We have all experienced this for ourselves. We do not have
to be victimized by our mind; we can learn to live in peace with
it. This truthTalk will focus on how we can befriend
our mind with understanding, acceptance, transcendence, and humor.
> Work Life Balance
With escalating demands on our time and attention, we may experience
a personal kind of koyanisqatsi, a Hopi word meaning
“out of balance, life in chaos.” How do we get things under control
and experience more of the elusive balance? Perhaps we learn new
skills, like time management, goal setting, prioritization, and
planning. Do these work? What is a balanced life? What, truly,
produces the feelings of being koyaanisqatsi? What can
we do to bring more harmony, joy, and efficiency to our living?
This truthTalk will provide some startling re-frames
of the traditional conversation about work life balance.
> Spiritual Activism
Our times require vigorous participation in political life — political
meaning "the total complex of relations between people living
in society." From cradle to grave, we exist in relationship.
How are we to live in these relationships? How engaged are we
in the events of the day? What is our civic responsibility to
our community, country, and the world? How much responsibility
do we take for the condition of the world? We affect our world
with two complimentary action strategies: direct and meditative.
Direct action throws water on a threatening fire, pulls a child
out of harm's way, writes letters to the editor, and participates
in the electoral process. Meditative action cultivates intimacy,
empathy and clear seeing; and sends constant prayers of blessing
and loving-kindness from one's heart to all beings. Spiritual
activists engage in both strategies with equal skill and enthusiasm.
For these strategies to be effective, for these strategies to
have traction and healing effect in our world, we must be and
embody the highest expression of our common humanity. As we seek
to renew the world with love, kindness, and generosity, we must
explore and experience the transcendent beauty and wonder of our
true nature. We must elevate our thoughts, words, and actions
so they reflect our unity-in-love with all creation.
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